update 26.3 dependencies and pack mods

- polymer 0.18.0+26.3-rc-1 -> 0.18.2+26.3 (first 26.3 final build)
- fabric-api 0.160.5 -> 0.161.0, loom 1.18.1 -> 1.18.2
- pack: move squaremap, syncmatica, farmers-delight (+polymer patch),
  jei, worldedit, lithium to their 26.3 builds; bump fabric-api, polymer
- lithium now resolved from Modrinth instead of CurseForge (same mod, same author)
- docs: fix stale hurtMarked reference, drop carpet snapshot warning

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

server-deploy/pack/pack.toml

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ pack-format = "packwiz:1.1.0"
 [index]
 file = "index.toml"
 hash-format = "sha256"
-hash = "7524eced8051fa2ae3e84ae584afcf9863dd121db99555618b517447540daed1"
+hash = "45ebe64136ab754ef8b6b423de6242c174d6bc78230b48767904b2f67dcaaa71"
 
 [versions]
 fabric = "0.19.5"